perseverance. In turn kids gain a sense of accomplishment, self-confidence and reason to believe in themselves.
Recently on the playground when my daughter faced two bars. She easily reached the lower of the two, hung upside down, jumped off and was done. It was easy for her and there was no sense of accomplishment. No reason to celebrate. Then she stood before the high bar and reached. It was too high to get a hold of. I could sense the wheels turning, "How can I get up there?" She began to stand on her tip toes and wiggle her fingers. She still couldn't reach. Attempt after attempt she thought, she tried and she failed, but did not give up. She reassessed and she watched others. With encouraging words, determination, the belief that she could succeed and days of visiting the playground she proudly ran over to me, "Mommy, watch me. I can do it!" The hard work paid off.
Watching the process of kids working through tasks that are hard for them and then
succeed is exactly why I raise the bar in my classroom. I want to see my students ponder, work hard, reach high and not settle for the easy way out. I expect them to fail sometimes because when we accomplish tasks with hard work we have reason to celebrate, to give high-fives, smile and feel good about ourselves. We must
believe in our children, and they will believe in themselves.
During science students were to read a non-fiction selection on the stem of plants and answer questions. As it had been modeled in class, they were expected to record answers in complete sentences using content vocabulary. Every single student needed to reexamine their work. I could have thought, "This is too hard for them" and move on since all students struggled with the expectations. But it was not out of their
reach. Yes, they had to work harder, reread, rethink and rewrite, but it was an attainable goal. Some students fixed their errors in one attempt, for others it took a number of times. Yet, students were not discouraged because they knew I believed they could do it. I gave support, encouragement and strategy to help them succeed. All the kids persevered to complete the assignment as expected and were proud of their accomplishments. We gave high fives, we cheered, and they definitely had reason to celebrate.
I believe all learners need to be held to a high standard. We must raise the bar, and help them until they reach it. As a result we will begin to see students believe in
themselves and expect more from themselves.
A GREAT REASON TO CELEBRATE!